Last night, Sterling K Brown won big at the SAG Awards, the first Black winner in the category of Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Drama Series for his part as Randall in This is Us, the show that I adore. I don’t want to like it, because my job is quite intense and so I prefer my TV funny or action-packed and distracting rather than emotional and touchy-feely but it is just so good. Damn you, Sterling! He’s one of the reasons the show is so good.
But the image that has been playing on my mind is the mini-meme that’s been going around of the actor that plays young Randall on the show, Lonnie Chavis, looking at (?) Yara Shahidi of the show Blackish.
I’ve seen other tweets in which people riff on the theme of baby Randall ‘checking out’ Yara Shahidi and for some reason they’ve made me a little uncomfortable.
Lonnie is 9. Admittedly, I don’t know much about kids and I was a very late bloomer, but there’s something redolent of the Daily Mail’s leering at ‘barely legal’ pre-teen girls for me in the rush to make this a sexual thing.
Maybe he’s in awe (she is gorgeous) but maybe he’s just daydreaming as he waits his turn on the red carpet for the photo opp. The meme isn’t all over the place, but I’ve seen enough tweets to notice it and feel a bit uneasy.
And I think the fact that he’s a little black boy, who don’t really get to be little boys for very long, is why this unnerves me a little.
He’s just a kid. Let him be a kid for as long as we can, because the world doesn’t often let that happen.